What would happen if your fiancé were to give you a ring?
If the three of us — you, your fiancé, and I — were sitting in my office, that’s the question with which I would begin our conversation.
A few years back I heard a rabbi speak. He told us something that I have thought of often since then.“People assume,” he said, “that following the Law is a burden, that it’s a chore. But actually,” he went on, “it’s a joy.”