To understand monastic guidelines, it’s helpful to put them in a historical context.

Contraception is a wise and reasonable choice for anyone who wishes or needs to prevent or postpone parenting.

Watching a loved one suffer can be unbearable. Many times, we struggle to get clear about what is wise and compassionate action, especially when our emotions are stirred up from caring for them.

Within Buddhism, there are different tenet systems that have slightly different presentations or interpretations of the subtle meaning of liberation and nirvana, which requires a longer discussion.

The Buddhist "rules" are guidelines to help us live in harmony with others and create happiness for ourselves. At the very least, we try not to harm others. And as much as we can, we try to help.

Grief comes to the mind because we mistakenly grasp at things as permanent, not as how they actually exist, which is fleeting and transitory.