fbpx
48.5 F
Spokane
Tuesday, March 19, 2024
HomeCommentaryAskAsk An Evangelical: Where does hate come from?

Ask An Evangelical: Where does hate come from?

Date:

Related stories

Seeds of Hope: Thoreau, Jesus, and Enduring Faith in Hard Times

In “The Succession of Forest Trees,” an 1860 address to folks attending a county cattle show (precursor to our county fair), Henry David Thoreau proclaimed his “faith in a seed.”

Let’s Check Our Ageism at the Door When Voting for President

Ageism happens to young and old alike. Though it’s much bigger news when it involves the two presumptive presidential candidates.

This Ramadan, Feel the Hunger and Feed the Hungry

Around the globe, Muslims, including myself, will be fasting for 29-30 days (depending on the sight of the moon), connecting with our Creator and finding solace at home or with our congregation. Ramadan gives us an opportunity to take a break from our fast-paced, hectic routines.

Happy National Sunshine Week: A Call for a More Transparent Government

The week of March 16 is celebrated as National Sunshine Week (this year March 10-16), calling for more transparency in government actions. 

Even My Inner Hermit Needs Connection

Tracy Simmons writes about how she challenges her inner hermit to reach out of her comfort zone to find connection with others, in her career and in her personal life.

By Elizabeth Backstrom

Haven’t you heard what we have lived to learn?
Nothing so new—something we had forgotten:
War is for everyone.

–Robert Frost, The Bonfire (1920)

Q: Where does hate come from?

Hi, thanks for writing. I’ll give two answers. I think many Evangelicals would say hate comes from the Fall of Man, detailed in Genesis 3. Before that, hate and darkness had no place in the world. After that, it did. Once Adam and Eve ate from the tree in the middle of the Garden of Eden, there was no going back.

Here’s where I think that narrative is missing something. It implies, without directly saying so, that hate came into being during the Fall. I don’t think it did. I think we discovered how to hate.

“You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” Genesis 3:4-5

Hate, in my experience, is impossible without love. Without truly caring for and loving someone or something, how can we then hate it?

Some say the opposite of love is indifference – I think that’s pretty true. Hate is closer to love than indifference, because it requires us to feel something, even if that something is violent and wrong, for another person or idea or group.

But where does hate actually come from? How do we get from there to here?

I think it’s fear.

We hate what are afraid of losing or becoming. We love who we are or what we have so much that the just the idea of someone or something threatening that makes us afraid. But to fear is to be vulnerable. Nobody wants that. So instead we get angry. We hate because it’s easier than admitting anything else.

Someone who loves their body, the one with the happy marriage, the one who doesn’t care what anyone thinks, the one whose life doesn’t look like our expectations, but has still achieved (how have they gotten ahead while I’m still back here?) is a threat. Because if that person is happy the way they are, maybe it’s okay not to be normal.

Maybe it’s okay to live life differently. Maybe normal doesn’t mean anything at all. And if I’ve put a lot of effort into that, it’s suddenly become a waste of time, and I’m angry. I’m afraid. I’m irrelevant. I hate you. Look how you’ve made me feel.

That’s how love turns to hate. Yoda was right all along.

After the Fall, we didn’t start to hate. We simply learned what it was. We took our love and tested it to its limits. The full knowledge of what it means to be human includes hate. Is that dark? Absolutely. We’re good at dark. That’s why many would say we need some help down here.

Elizabeth Backstrom
Elizabeth Backstrom
Elizabeth Backstrom majored in journalism at Western Washington University and currently works as remotely as a grant writer. Her background is in news writing and features, but if an overabundance of caffeine is consumed, she has been known to write a humor piece or two. Backstrom attended various Christian churches growing up in Washington State and in her free time enjoys reading about history, religion and politics.

Ad

spot_img
spot_img
spot_img
spot_img

2 COMMENTS

0 0 votes
Article Rating
Subscribe
Notify of
guest
2 Comments
Oldest
Newest Most Voted
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
Sherrilewis Lewis
Sherrilewis Lewis
6 years ago

I would add that Adam and eve didn’t know they were naked until the ‘fall’ when they did not follow God’s instruction to not eat of that one tree. After eating, they became aware of their nakedness and were filled with shame which is another component to hate I feel. From your perspective of hate being there, but them not being aware, I think this is plausible on the same sense that they became aware of their nakedness.

I would also add that if you’re looking at the fall indepth, you see fear from the standpoint t of fear of missing out. Eve ate the fruit because she was promised it would create something or reveal great thongs to her. She didn’t know and wanted to find out. Fear of missing out. Fear of the unknown.

Great thoughts!

Elizabeth Erin
Elizabeth Erin
6 years ago

Thank you! Thanks for reading 🙂

spot_img
2
0
Would love your thoughts, please comment.x
()
x